Your Life’s Purpose

The human desire to search for our life’s purpose has a long history. We want to know at a conscious level the reason we are here on earth so that we can take responsibility for our lives and start living authentically. Are you seeking your life’s purpose? Do you take responsibility for your life? Are you living authentically?

Does this topic interest you? If so, were you following “A New Earth Web Event” that was online every Monday evening? Oprah and Eckhart Tolle taught an online class based on Tolle’s best-selling book A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life’s Purpose. It was a live webcast in which people from around the world watched online and also participated via Skype. Each week one chapter from the book was reviewed. We were amazed to learn just how many people are sincerely seeking emotional well being through identification of their life’s purpose. The report we heard stated there were almost two million viewers online and that didn’t count the people who watched the recordings at a later date, OR others who are following other avenues!

Tolle is a spiritual teacher and states that you can begin to awaken to your life’s purpose when you stop identifying the person you are as the chatter in your mind, the voice in your head. He calls that voice, those negative messages and reactions, the ego and the ego wants to be separate from everyone and everything else. The more you recognize your own ego, the more it will diminish and you will experience greater emotional well being. As you practice noticing when your ego is talking to you, you will be able to let go of the roles it has had you playing and you can begin living authentically using your core inner strength. Letting go of the ego in this way sounds simple yet it requires practice and more practice.

Do we work too hard at seeking our life’s purpose? In “The Secret” (book and DVD) it is stated that your life’s purpose is whatever you want it to be. It does sound like an oversimplified notion and yet it makes sense. You are in control of who you are. What you are passionate about is most likely related to your life’s purpose. So by following these passions and yearnings, using your intuition and disregarding the negative mind chatter, you will be living your life’s purpose.

Another perspective is that whatever you are doing at any given time, could very well be part of your life’s purpose. What we mean is that your life’s purpose may not be “one” thing or activity. It could be a series of steps that lead you in a specific direction with each of the steps being a part of your life’s purpose. If you are living your life from inner strength and eliminating that negative internal dialogue, you can relax and enjoy each and every step.

About the Author: Lynn Hull and Julie Molner, professional life coaches, co-authored “Your Life Your Way: The Essential Guide for Women” despite living across the Atlantic Ocean from one another. They are passionate about the unlimited possibilities that exist for all! http://www.essentialguideforwomenblog.com

Is There Something Great You’re Here to Do? Use Strategies to Create It!

Do you have a strong feeling that you have a life purpose to fulfill? Do you have an inner urge to accomplish something specific with your life? Do you have these feelings, but have no idea what specific thing that might be? Does it seem that you are here to do something great? Do you wonder how to accomplish it? Do you believe you know what to do, but not how to do it? Does it seem you are lacking know how, knowledge, connections, guts, support, self confidence, or financial wherewithal?

Consider approaching life purpose strategically, that is, laid out as a complete plan consisting of many and varied small action steps accomplished over time.

For our purposes here, we will assume that you know what your life purpose is, but don’t know how to accomplish it. Figuring out life purpose is more complex than could be covered here. So, you know what you are here to accomplish, but cannot figure out how to go forward, taking action consistently.

The first thing to do is to do a “brain dump”, that is to get down on paper every single idea you’ve ever had about how to accomplish this purpose.

At the top of the first page of paper, write “Strategy:”. After the colon, write your life purpose goal. Underneath, draw three columns. Use several sheets of paper, drawing three columns on each sheet. At the top of each column, write “Tactic:”. After each tactic heading, come up with a tactic for that column.

Let’s say your strategy is to become a musician whose work provokes humans to treat fellow humans lovingly and compassionately. Let’s say you are already a trained musician. Some of your tactics might be:

  • Create a band or performing group
  • Learn music business
  • Create electronic press kit
  • Create a repertoire of songs
  • Write songs
  • Get a booking agent
  • Plan a tour
  • Develop professional relationships
  • Get recording contract

Now, under each tactic, begin to list as many small action steps as you can think of. If you realize there is knowledge you need to acquire, make a tactic column titled “Acquire Knowledge”.

For an example of the tactic “Create a Band Or Performing Group”, you might have the following action steps:

  • Decide on size of group
  • Decide on instruments
  • Figure out participants (already known and needed)
  • Decide type of music
  • Create Ground rules
  • Hold auditions
  • Find practice studio
  • Decide practice schedule

Create more tactics as you realize the need. Consolidate or expand as needed. Your strategy is a living document that expands as your vision expands. Print your completed strategy off and file it in a binder. Set aside regular times to work on reviewing and revising your strategy. This could be once a week, or twice a month.

When you review your strategy, cross out all the items you have completed. You will find that simply by having a written strategy, you are taking action on it without even thinking of it. As you see what you have completed, you will get new ideas. Add them to the strategy. Date the old version.

Then create a new version, typing it up and adding new items. As you accomplish action items in your strategy, you will meet new people, gain new knowledge, get new ideas, develop new contacts. Add all this into your strategy.

Developing a strategy is the way to bring your Life Purpose into reality the easiest and fastest. It can be done…and it can be easy.

About the Author: Suzi Elton is a success coach working with highly creative types to create income that matches their talent.She has coached hundreds of clients to approach their goals strategically through tiny steps to bring about quantum leaps. Get free Life Purpose exercises, at http://mylifepurposecoaching.com.