I totally agree with Don Bennett that what we know to be true may not be so. In the fifteenth century, people believed that the earth is the center of the universe. Even though most people during that time believed that the sun revolves around the earth, we in the twentieth century know that was not true.

Is there any consequence in believing in something? For example you believe that cholesterol can cause heart disease. To ensure that you will not get heart disease, you will make sure that your cholesterol level is always below 240. What if I said that cholesterol is not the cause of heart disease? Am I kidding? No I’m not; in 1990 Dr. Meir Stamfer, a professor at Harvard School of Public Health, confirmed an earlier finding by Dr McCully, assistant professor at Harvard Medical School, that the real culprit in heart disease is homocysteine (intermediate by-product of metabolism). The homocysteine level in your blood can be controlled if you take sufficient supply of folic acid, vitamin B12 and vitamin B6. The direct consequence of your belief is you developing a higher risk of developing heart disease.

Some of us believe in ape to man evolution. The consequence is we indirectly deny the existence of God, who had created man. However this ape to man evolution theory was invalidated by the people who were looking for evidence to proof it. The fossils that they found proved that the evolutions never happen.

More from Don Bennett’s article entitled, “Belief and Reality - Truth or Consequences”.

If I asked you, “Do you know your date-of-birth?” you’d probably give me the answer right off the top of your head, right? But do you really know the date you were born, or would the more correct answer be, “I believe I was born on…” I make this distinction for a very good reason. Even though you were there at your birth, you were too young to remember much about it, especially the date. At some point in your life, you relied on what others told you your birth date was, and your birth certificate (something in print from an authority) backed up those statements.

A friend of mine from many years ago thought she knew what her birth date was. I’m sure, like most of us, she would have been willing to bet money on it. Then one day a thoughtful friend gave her, as a birthday gift, one of those newspapers that were published on the date of her birth, from the area she was born in. She thought the gift was “so cool”. But in checking the accuracy of the paper, she noticed the weather at the time of her birth: “clear and sunny”. This didn’t jibe with her mom’s account of the day she was born. My friend had been regaled, on more than one occasion, with the story of how she was almost born in the car because it was raining so hard that some of the streets were impassible, making it difficult to get to the hospital. But yet there it was in black and white: “clear and sunny”. Her first thought was that the newspaper wasn’t what it was advertised to be. So she decided to prove it (and being a righter of wrongs, make a stink about it). But a check of the Farmer’s Almanac for that day and area revealed that it was indeed “clear and sunny”; and the National Weather Service agreed with the Almanac. Turns out, the date on her birth certificate was off by seven days, and rather than her parents correcting this when it was discovered, they simply celebrated her birthdays to coincide with the printed document.

The moral of the story? You don’t know your date-of-birth… you believe it is the date on your birth certificate. Knowing and believing are two entirely different things. But sometimes the two are used interchangeably. No big deal, right? It really doesn’t significantly impact anything if your real date-of-birth is a few days different than what you thought it was. But what if you thought (knew) that something you consumed on a regular basis was beneficial to your health, when it was actually harmful to your health. Many people I speak to are certain that milk and dairy products are good for your health. So it’s natural, since they “know” this to be the case, that when they’re given information to the contrary, they dismiss it out-of-hand… because they know milk is good for them. In reality, they believe milk is good for them. In reality, milk is not a normal, natural part of an adult human’s diet, and does way more harm than good.

So why am I making this distinction between knowing something and believing something? If I asked you, “Is milk good for you?” your ability to hear the reality about dairy products is greatly affected by your answer. If your thinking process is, “I know milk is good for me”, you might have a difficult time hearing the facts surrounding this topic. If, however, your position was, “I believe milk is good for me” (same as, “My understanding is that milk is good for me), then you’re more likely to be open to hearing information about the topic’s facts and fictions. And you’ll take at face value “facts” from “authorities” (whether in print or on TV) instead of accepting them as the gospel truth (remember, although from an authority, my friend’s birth certificate was incorrect; no doubt an honest mistake, but a lot of information regarding health is intentionally misleading).

Needless to say, being open-minded, especially about issues dealing with your health, is in your best interest. And one of the best ways to be open-minded is to realize that many of the things you know to be true, you actually believe to be true… and acknowledge that there’s a difference. Remember, “What can do you the most harm is what you know, that just ain’t so.”

Article Source: Health101.org

Pursuing happiness is the main agenda of most people. Oxford Dictionary defined pursue as follow with the intent to catch or capture. What I got from the definition was that happiness is something out there, something that we have to follow and catch to feel or to experience it. That something might be getting a fulfilling job, a million dollars, a perfect mate, so on and so forth.

A few years back I was complaining about me not getting a promotion. I was not happy and I thought getting a promotion will bring me the happiness I was pursuing. I got the promotion and I was very happy. However the happiness did not last long. New commitments were made, more bills were added and some of them were getting bigger. A new pursue began, “I’ll be happy if I get another promotion.” I was present to the fact that the same cycle will continue, on and on and on….. Am I going to let myself in the same “fate” as I was before or get out of it? I chose to be grateful with what I have at the moment and enjoy it. By choosing to be grateful, I’m releasing the happiness which is already inside me (and every one of us). If we do not chose to be grateful, greed will prevent us from feeling the happiness.

I did not say that you should be “contented” and not working hard to pursue your dream. You should continue pursuing your dream, but you don’t have to postpone your happiness to “someday”. You can experience the happiness right now, regardless of the situation you are in now by accepting what you are having.

“Success is getting what you want; happiness is wanting what you get.” - Charles F Kettering.

Happy is a way of being. When you are being happy, you created a space that allowed yourself to be the best you can. When you give your best, the universe will give the best to you.